Hello, my name is Suhanti Wisanto. As you can see on the right side, my main job is a housewife. Please allow me to introduce myself, so you can understand why I became an unintentional serious blogger.

Once I was a very nerd and shy kid. My favorite things to do was hide in my small room and drawing pics from Candy-candy, a very famous Japanese manga stories, to the portrait of my dad and mom that worked out of town. Back then, they were no ai-ai stuff or mall or cable channels to spend your time.

Because of the lack of intelligence to talk or became a popular girl in my primary school, I wrote all my frustrated and overwhelming feelings about school, a killer teacher, how I missed my parent, crushed to a super cute boy with dozen fans, ached to slap the bitch in my class but I dare not, even made a comics, copycat teen novel, kungfu movies script and whatever else which only God knew, at a super secret diary (didn’t we all do the same, 80’s gals?)…..which nowadays people call it blog or facebook or twitter.

In my college times, suddenly I turned into a butterfly. No more shyness, no more nerd, no more ugly, no more fat. All these stupid thoughts that made my life wasted…. gone, just like that. Then I met my very own college rock star, Erwin. He was so astonished with my hairband’s cassette collection (yes, hairband + cassette.. it means you gotta keep pressing rewind-forward to hear Axl Rose screaming), and he asked me for a date, hope to had a good chance to borrow it free…well…ehem…

So beside rock n’ roll, college introduced me to mountain climbing, worked several jobs, experienced Indonesian political chaos of 98′, when Soeharto the no-to-speak-the-name president fell from his throne, and one of the most important things happened at that era was : accepted Jesus as the Savior in my life.


Which led me to a new church community : St. Thomas. Which led me to a new shocking talent : dancing. Which led me to a more shocking fact : dancing through a decade until now. But wait…hold on…before you think I’m a super professional like the one at So you think you can dance’s dancers, I have to make it clear that I’m not THAT kind of dancer.

An impossible too late to start a dance career is the main reason why I never became one, beside I am an Indonesian born chinese, which most of us either became an accountant or a merchant, so how can dancers became my profession in the 90’s? But a strange path does exist if you believed in grace. No matter my skill is not uber-expert, body-no-more-licious, yet you can see those path in couple of my dance works with my best team : MDC at mecholadancecenter.com.

jay ho ceweSee… how colorful my life after all? And the time came when I started the path of, you know the gonna-be happy ever after stories. I am married to my rocker 11 years ago, and in a consequently 4 and 1/2 years, we met the mini-suhanti and mini-erwin…..such beautiful girl, handsome boy and super cute girl (well, I’m not exaggerating).

Screen shot 2012-10-30 at 9.48.04PMEven I feel very blessed, the first seven years marriage was an exhausted life of mine. Busy raising babies, have to work till midnite because we don’t own a gold mine, has my dancing that I cannot give up, and boy you sure know how us…woman, were struggling to became a good wife, which almost most of us failed while trying to be a good mom. And I must say for the last 4 years, when I finally gave up job and became a full housewife, my life seems to re-start again.

A new routine which does not included keep baking something, stitch or doing craft or fighting over my children to doing their homework. I don’t live in philosophy that children are the center of my life…. well, they are one of the biggest & the best part, but hey!…. I got a lot of interests even I’m at home almost all the time. Beside, I have a Rocker to concerned, which I must live with until death do us apart. Funny how I see my life is much more in control since then.

I bet now you guys already know what is this blog about. It’s a bits and pieces of that no-more-secret diary stories of my life, how I learn to take a good pics with iPhone and Canon s95, or about practice that b-boy moves for an old mom like me, maybe learning html to make my blog looks better, even sharing my faith and thought about everything that I read and experience, and of course : the low budget traveling from one place to another that I’m rambling about.


Screen shot 2012-10-30 at 11.05.31PMBut most of all, it’s about 3teddies2bears (guess who’s who), how the drive me nuts homework and such complicated spaghetti make my life became a blessing.

Here’s a starter read for you, couple of my fave writes :

  1. Kids…errgghh…fiuuhh…
  2. The Heaven’s Owner
  3. Till Death Do Us Apart
  4. Empty Tank
  5. Gua Maria Betauni

If you like my stories, let’s be friends across time and places by clicking one of those social buttons. And if you really really really like it, why don’t you share one to your friends and families? Who knows I’m going to be the next Raditya Dika with wig and make a fortune and treat you a cup of coffee. Thank you for coming to my site.



n.b : most of my post written in indonesian language, only a couple used english. so If you’re itching to see my impossible grammar, please understand that I’m trying to memorize all those english class once I took since when. And if you cannot stand to scratch it, how will be grateful I am to have the right correction. Just email me at : suhanti.wisanto@gmail.com. Thanks.